Goodbyes are hard

I was hoping to return from Thanksgiving break with a wonderful blog full of our fun weekend.  But that blog will have to wait.  Right now, my heart is sad...broken.

My brother-in-law to-be lost his grandparents this week.  They were in a car accident last week.  My heart aches for that family.  And the woman involved in the accident was in my class in school.  I cannot imagine what she must feeling.  I am praying for all of them.

A friend of my sister lost her brother this morning.  He was battling cancer.  I never met him.  But I just cannot fathom losing a sibling.

And we are dealing with our own heartbreak at home.  My daughter's rabbit has died.  We had her for just over a year.  K was so sad to have to say goodbye to her.  We all were.

So, it's been a hard week.  The Lord gives and He takes away.  His timing is perfect.  His ways are best.  I may not understand it all right now, but I have to believe in His promises.  He knows the big picture and I have to trust that He is doing and allowing exactly what needs to be done.  We would appreciate your prayers.  And please pray for the others I have mentioned as losing grandparents and siblings is much harder than losing a pet.  God is capable of giving hugs and your prayers will be a part of that.  Thank you.

Thanksgiving

On Sunday, we were encouraged to wake up every morning by doing the following 3 things:

stretch - it gets your body going
smile - it gets you in the right mood
say "God loves me!" - gets you spiritually ready for the day

For the last 2 days I have done this and what a difference it has made in my mornings!  Even if I don't feel like smiling, I force that smile on my face and by the time I say "God loves me!" outloud, that smile is real and whatever the day holds, I know that God is there right beside me all the way through it.

It also puts me in a thankful mood.  The Bible mentions being thankful several times.  We are to come into His presence with thanksgiving.  We are to be thankful in every circumstance.  We are to be thankful for all things.  We are to be thankful.  We are to ask for things with an attitude of thanksgiving.  We are to do all things with an attitude of thanksgiving.  The Bible also gives examples of peole who were thankful to God, even in heartbreaking situations.  I must admit that I so often fall short.  Many times, I come to the Lord with a selfish attitude, wanting Him to see things MY way.  I want Him to see how frustrated I am, or how I think things should be.  But the things is, He DOES see how I see things and what I want and how frustrated I am.  He knows what is best for me.  I don't.  I am so thankful that God does things His way because His way is the absolute best and it is perfect.  I am so thankful that God gives me grace and mercy.  Mercy is when I'm spared what I do deserve and grace is when I'm given what I don't deserve.

I deserve to go to hell.  I am a sinner, unworthy of being in the presence of God.  But by His mercy, He wants to save me, keep me from perishing in hell.  God does not want anyone to perish.  And by His grace, He has offered me life.  I am not good enough to get to heaven.  No matter how many good deeds I do, no matter how often I go to church, no matter how much I pray, no matter how much I believe in the exitence of God, I cannot get to heaven on my own.  Those things will not save me.  I must realize I am a sinner, unable to go to heaven, separated from God.  I must believe that Jesus took my punishment and died in my place on the cross.  I must accept the gift of eternal life that God offers and trust Jesus as my Savior.  I am forever thankful to God for His sacrifice for me so that I could live forever in heaven.

I'm also thankful for my life.  I'm thankful for my husband and children, the family I grew up in, my church family, and the many many friends I have.  I am thankful that I live in a country where I can freely worship my Lord.  I am thankful that I have a home, I have more than enough food, I have plenty of clothes, I have clean water to drink, and so many other things that we often take for granted.

But, this year, I've been thinking about all the people who have been such a huge influence in my life.  I would not be the person I am today without them investing their time in me.  I'm sure I'll forget some people but these people have been coming to mind a lot lately and I am so thankful to them for caring about my spiritual walk and to God for bringing them into my life and giving them the wisdom to help me.

My dad - such a great spiritual leader in our family, church, and community.
My mom - a wonderful example of sacrificial love and supportive and submissive wife
My sisters - all 3 of my sisters are an encouragement to me
Seth - my amazing husband of 13 1/2 years!  He has made living for the Lord more real than anyone else I've met.  I get caught up in the traditions, and going through the motions, but he turns my head around and makes me see the reality of living for God.  Be me.  Care only about what God thinks, not anything that anyone else thinks, no matter who they are.
My kids - yes, I can learn things from them.  They see things with young eyes and hearts and often realize God's ways in areas that I miss it.
Jerry Holan - He was my Sunday School teacher and it was in his class that I realized I was not going to heaven.  Just because my parents were Christians, it didn't mean that I was too.  I had to make the decision on my own to follow Jesus.  It is because of Jerry that I chose to give my life to Jesus.
Tilman LaBuff - He was my junior high Sunday School teacher.  As you know, this is an age where kids find themselves under peer pressures and want to be cool.  I was afraid that being a Christian wasn't cool.  I wanted to break free of the "rules" of Christianity and walk with the world.  Tilman showed me that being a Christian is cool.  I mean, Tilman was one of the coolest adults I knew and he was truly a believer who walked closely with the Lord.  It was also while under his teaching that I started praying for the salvation of each one of my classmates in school.  I still do.
Paul Nelson - He was my high school Sunday School teacher and youth group leader.  He made me see that I don't need to be afraid to live like a Christian.  My mission field was my school.  I was to be a light there, and be set apart from the world.  I was to be different and not try to fit in.  I started to act more like myself and not be afraid of who I truly was.
Chad Clarkson - It was through his influence that I chose to attend Emmaus Bible college
Sharon Beaman - She was my best friend in high school.  I had more fun with her than I ever thought possible.  She was one of the few people my age with whom I talk about spiritual things.  I think we both grew in the Lord.
The Meyer family - Not only did this family provide amazingly fun times and a great place to just hang out, but they were a very godly family.  They were the first family I had met who homeschooled.  Each of the kids, including some my age, showed how important God was to them.  I don't think I would have had the courage to live out my faith as a teen if it weren't for their influence.
Andy Karas - He is one of the best guy friends a girl could ask for.  We were so close that some people thought we were dating - which to us was quite laughable.  He chose to quit public school and finish his high school years homeschooling.  Although I hated that he left, I respected him for this brave decision.  He was probably the wisest and most godly friend I had and I didn't realize it until years later.
Rachel Sylvester - I grew up with her at camp.  We were in the same cabin almost every year.  As we all grew up, it was clear how much she loved the Lord.  She was one of the few people I knew at Emmaus when I first arrived.  She took me around and we introduced ourselves to several people and she introduced me to some people she already knew.  Since I'm a bit shy, I appreciated her boldness.
Amy Rush - She became my best friend in college.  So many heart-to-hearts with her.  She encouraged me to keep trusting the Lord and what He is doing.
Dave Glock - He officiated our wedding.  He was a man who was very much in love with his wife (and I'm sure he misses her everyday).  He was quite a jokester and wasn't afraid to be silly.  His outlook on life seemed to be live for the Lord and have fun doing it!
Keith Leverentz - He was another professor at Emmaus.  He made life with Jesus real.  He was real.  There was nothing fake about him.  He had faults and a lot of wisdom.  It was an encouragement to see that we will always be learning in our walk with the Lord.
Tom Marinello - Another Emmaus professor.  He was one of the few professors who supported and encouraged Seth's and my relationship.  He was full of tid bits of wisdom but still had fun.  This was the one I stuck my tongue out at and he got me back by having a guy read a poem to me in class.
The Grueneichs - Such a wonderful family who worked at Village Creek Bible Camp.  I enjoyed listening to Reuben speak at church, Ruth was an amazing cook and so sweet - not afraid to have some fun, Dan was never afraid to hand out wisdom and was always willing to sit and talk - I know he had a great impact on Seth's spiritual life, and Rod - chalk full of fun and reality.
Karen Smith - I miss her so much.  She was a very sweet lady who opened her arms and her home to us when we first moved to Wichita.  She shined godliness and shared her wisdom and things she learned in her life.  She was truly an older woman teaching the younger.
Heather Smith - We seemed to be on the same path in life, but she was so full of joy.  She was happy to be serving the Lord as a mother.  She also prayed for me when I was going through some rough times.
Russ and Jan Yost - Such a fun and godly couple!  They opened their home to us several times and were very hospitable.  They had such great wisdom on marriage and raising a family in the Lord.
Ashley Mullinix - Someone I could vent to without being judged!  We shared our struggles with each other and she was just someone I could lean on and I was someone she could lean on.
Margaret Peters - Another amazing woman full of God's wisdom and not afraid to show that she is still learning and growing.
The Skiles family - From parents to 4 (now grown) children, they all have much love for the Lord and serving Him.
Jennifer Hollinger - Fun but serious about the things of the Lord.  She has such a heart for those not walking with the Lord and wants to see her children, her nieces and nephews, and all children grow up to love the Lord and serve Him fully.
The elders at Westside Bible Chapel - Each one of them have expressed their love for the Lord and for their flock at Westside.  They serve in different ways and I appreciate all that they do.
Trudy Burkle - Another godly woman who has opened her home on several occasions.

I'm sure there are many others who have greatly impacted my life and there will be many more as long as I am still on this earth.  But to each and every one of you, thank you.  Thank you for loving the Lord so much that you would love me.  Thank you for teaching me your wisdom, passing on your life lessons learned, encouraging me in my walk, and for just being shining examples for Jesus Christ.  You are doing things for eternal gain without a care for the earthly gain.  I love you all.

And thank you to my heavenly Father who has guided my path so that I would meet all of these wonderful people.  It is He who brought them into my life and placed on their hearts to reach me wherever I was at.

Oh how blessed I am.

Girls weekend!

My husband and son went on a hunting trip so it's me and the girls for the weekend!!  I think it will be best if I write this in pieces, although it will be  together in one fun blog.

Friday started out fairly normal.  The kids and I got up to do school and Seth left to go to work.  He came home, we had lunch, and then craziness ensued.  Seth and J were packing and preparing for their trip.  The girls and I helped when needed but mostly tried to stay out of their way.  I sent the girls to quiet hour while the guys were doing last-minute shopping.  Finally, they were ready to go, just waiting for their ride.

As they waited, I received a phone call from a sweet young woman from church.  She wanted to take advantage of a coffee special and asked if I wanted to join in.  Not much of a coffee drinker, but love all the different flavors, I agreed to help her out.  :)  As the guys were loading up in my brother-in-law's truck, she came by and dropped off my coffee and some chocolate covered graham crackers for the girls.  It was very yummy.  We said good-bye to our boys, and off they went.  The house was now ours.

First, we had shopping to do.  Friday is my normal grocery shopping day but I also had plans to buy extra goodies for the weekend.  We were gone for nearly 2 hours, which is fairly normal for a grocery shopping trip, but this one was different and I didn't expect it to take that long.

As we unloaded the groceries from the van, a bird flew over my head and into the house as I held the door open.  I saw something fly above me, but I didn't realize it had flown into the house.  K was frightened as she saw something fly into the house.  I thought maybe it was a bat as that is not uncommon which scared K even more because I didn't realize it was in the house and she did.  I went back out to the van to get another load as K cautiously entered the house to discover the bird.  She met me on the porch and informed me it wasn't a bat, it was a bird.  Confused, I asked her what she meant.  This is when I found out what K was so scared about.  It was a bird IN the house.  I looked inside and there it was perched on our ceiling fan.  Great.  I was tired, ready for supper, ready to relax with my girls, and we had a bird in our house.  K and A continued to get groceries from the van while I tried to get the bird off of my fan.  I startled it and it flew around the living room, unsure where to go, and came right back and landed on the fan.  Now what?  I then thought it must have gone into the house because of the light and it was really dark outside.  I had already turned on our porch light when we got home.  I walked around the house and turned off all of the lights inside.  The bird freaked out.  The only light it could see was the outside porch light.  It flew straight to the door...the closed door...and batted against the window of the outside door until it realized it couldn't get out and landed on top of the opened inside door.  By this time, the girls had arrived back on the porch.  I quietly told them and motioned to open the outside door.  They did, very cautiously.  The bird didn't move.  I gently shook the inside door and finally, the bird took off and perched itself in the porch ceiling just above my wind chimes.  I asked if there was anything else in the van.  K said all that needed to be done was close the back gate to the van so she went out and did that.  By the time she returned, the bird was gone.  We went inside and turned on the lights.  Whew!  That was a crazy 5 minutes.

We quickly put the groceries away and I warmed up their frozen dinners (not my normal choice for a meal, but it was already 7:00!)  While we were out, we picked out a couple of movies to watch.  Actually, 1 movie and a 3-movie set so a total of 4 movies.  I put in the 4 new movies and since we had a 5-disc DVD player, I had to put in a 5th movie to complete the DVD player.  Perhaps I'm a little bit OCD?

First up: Home Alone.  I always long to watch the Home Alone movies during Christmas time (and, yes I realize it's not quite Christmas season yet), but the only one we own is Home Alone 3 - and that's on VHS which of course we can no longer watch because our VCR quit working.  We had already settled on How The Grinch Stole Christmas (the real people version with Jim Carrey) but I couldn't resist the 3 Home Alone movies in one for just $13.

We ate our "TV dinners" and then had some ice cream as we enjoyed watching Kevin beat up the 2 bad guys.  My favorite line that I always laugh at?

"Why on earth do you have your shoes off?" - Harry
"Why on earth are you dressed like a chicken?" -Marv

Hilarious.  (Language edited)

When that movie finished, we cleaned up our dinner trays, got on our jammies and I broke out all the junk food.  I'm sure I gained 3 pounds.  Popcorn, chocolate, Oreos, potato chips, and the drink of our choice.  K got her Mocha Frapaccino, A got a Sprite, and I got my Cream Soda.  I was hoping to get a 6-pack of the glass bottled Cream Soda, but they were out (and I was seriously bummed!)  The girls got their pillows and blankets and set up their spots for sleeping.  We would all sleep in the living room.  I cleaned off the big couch for myself.

Then, to watch the Grinch.  Jim Carrey does a great job and the girl who played Cindy Lou Who is so adorable.  We snacked, we laughed, we snacked, we laughed.  I think the sugar started to hit A as she was jumping off the couches and doing flips on the floor.  After the movie, I ran downstairs to get my own jammies on (they were in the dryer).  I had some more sips of my Cream Soda.  We all took a bathroom break.  And started movie number 3.

Home Alone 2...another look at how Kevin beat up the 2 bad guys.  Different house, different city, same kid, same bad guys, same hilariousness.  I always laugh throughout this one and I found myself quoting the movie.  I hope it wasn't too annoying.  lol  My favorite line?

"What's that sound?" - Harry
Both put their ears next to a door as they hear this sound get louder and louder and all of a sudden they are pushed across the hallway and smashed against the wall.  As they push the door off of them, they're faces are crooked and Marv manages to say..
"That was the sound of a toolbox falling down the stairs."

I'm almost bursting out laughing right now just thinking about it.

By the time this movie ended, A was fast asleep.  K was still ready for more.  I told her I didn't think I was going to make it through this one.  We started up Home Alone 3.  Different kid, different family, same city as the first one, different bad guys, different plot and still hilarious.  Seth and I like this one a lot better than the first 2 mainly because the family is so much better than Kevin's family.  I think the plot is better too.  When Alex's mom and siblings discover that he could be in danger, the mom asks why but the FBI agent replies, "I am not at liberty to discuss it."  As he begins to walk out of the room, Alex's older sister walks ahead of him and closes the door.  She looks at him with great concern and says, "The 'it' you're referring to is my little brother."  The agent then gives them a quick summary of what is going on.  Although this family has their issues and the older siblings do poke fun at Alex, it is obvious this is a very loving family.  No jerks like Buzz or Uncle Frank.  Just normal happy family relations.

I did doze off during this movie while K stayed up and finished the whole thing.  I was awake by the end.  K decided she had had enough.  It was nearly 2:30 in the morning.  I turned off the TV, turned on sleep music on my ipod, and settled into my couch for the night.

But I couldn't sleep.  My nose was plugged up from allergies.  Some of the songs startled me when the volume changed from song to song.  The couch was no longer comfortable.  I finally headed downstairs to my own bed.  But that didn't help.  I was drinking caffeine and now I just couldn't sleep.  At some point, I came upstairs to use the restroom and it was 5:20.  Nice.

Eventually, I did fall asleep.  K was awake, dressed, and chores done by 9:30.  Then my phone rang.  I let my voicemail get it.  Then at 10:30, the doorbell rang.  I told K not to answer it.  But, that was it for me.  I couldn't go back to sleep.  So I sat up and tried to catch up on my Reader's Digest.  I was not ready to really wake up yet.  Both of the girls were up, watching movies or playing the computer.  Then I heard a heartwrenching cry.  A was hurt.  I ran upstairs to hear she was trying to change the volume and slipped on her stool leaving a large scrape in her little bum.  :(  After making sure she was ok, I went back down to my reading.  I finished the issue I was on and went back upstairs.

It is now almost 1:30 in the afternoon.  I'm still in my jammies and all we've had to eat thus far is leftover snacks from last night and the Swiss Rolls I bought for breakfast.  I think I may finally be awake.  I will go take my shower now and get to work on the plans for today.  Of course we should have lunch first....

More to come!

(My apologies for no pics.  I didn't think to grab my camera while the bird was in the house and I'm more into enjoying the moments as they happen than taking time out to capture them on camera.  So, if you like blogs with pics, sorry to disappoint!)

Here I am on a Monday morning getting back into routine, although not for long since Thanksgiving break is coming right up.  The weekend finished nice and relaxed.

By the time the girls and I had finished lunch it was about 3:00.  I decided I didn't have time to shower and that we should just get to work on the room switching.  First, we cleaned up K's room then what used to be A's room.  Then I moved all of our school things downstairs and put the futon back up in the couch position against a different wall.  That's as far as we got.  A's clothes are still down here but we'll figure the rest out later.

I finally got my shower, then we had supper.  I made tacos which I love.  I have always enjoyed Mexican food but since I was pregnant with A, it is my absolute favorite type of food and I'll eat it almost any chance I get.  :)  I wanted to watch Forever Young, one of my long-time favorites, and it happened to be on Netflix Instant play.  The girls weren't that interested so they played downstairs.  After a while, I had them take baths and go to bed while I finished the movie.

Then I headed to bed myself, but I got distracted with the realization that I had the entire basement to myself and this was my last evening alone.  So I played the keyboard for a while, put some pictures in frames, and read some Reader's Digest.  I finally settled in to bed about 12:30.

Sunday morning was like most Sunday mornings, except I didn't prepare lunch.  So I had extra time to straighten my hair and K's hair.  K's hair is usually full of curls so it looks very different when I straighten it.  We picked up 3 kids in the neighborhood and headed to church.  One of the kids has ADHD and really struggled that morning during our worship service.  It was frustrating.  In Sunday School, we started rehearsals for the Christmas program.  Then we had an excellant message on thankfulness during our last meeting.  After working on a song with a trio I sing in, I took the neighbor kids home.  Then the girls and I quickly changed our clothes and headed back out for lunch.

The girls chose McDonald's with a playplace.  We ordered the food and sat in the play area to eat.  It was very loud and crazy in there.  There was probably only one empty table in the entire room and the place was full of kids.  Kids were screaming every time they went down a slide.  One little girl came down crying with a bloody mouth.  A came to me kinda crying because she bonked her head - somehow because of some kid going up the slide while she was trying to slide down.  K complained that too many kids were climbing up the slides so she couldn't go down.  Finally, every single kid had left leaving just my 2 girls.  I let them play a little longer.  Another girl came in and played with them but it was time to go home.  We ordered some ice cream and walked out the door.

Sunday afternoon was no different than any other Sunday afternoon.  I sent the girls to quiet hour after they finished their ice cream.  Then we went over AWANA sections, picked up the other kids, and went to AWANA.  We came home and the boys were back.  Our weekend was officially over.

It was a nice relaxing and fun weekend though.  The boys had a good time too and brought home some pheasant.  We have 2 days of school then we leave to go to Iowa for Thanksgiving weekend.  Two fun weekends in a row!!  I'm sure I'll tell you all about it when I get back.  :)

First snow!!

If you know me at all, you would know that I love winter, especially if there's snow.  Since I grew up in Iowa and my husband in Idaho, we both were used to snow covered ground all winter long.  Well, Kansas does not give us that and I miss it so much.  Here it may snow but not stick until around January.  When it does stick, it only lasts a few days and then it's gone.  I make sure the kids and I are outside to enjoy it while it's here because it could be the only chance we get all season.

It kills me every time I read about snow in Iowa, Idaho, or even other parts of the country while I live in the snowless Kansas.  But on November 8, we had our first snow of the season!!!  It's a bit unusual to get it this early but all of us were just ecstatic!

It had been raining for 2 days straight.  We all knew there was a chance of it turning into snow late that night, but I figured it probably wouldn't and if it did, it will actually be freezing rain or something along that line.  The kids were in bed and Seth and I were just hanging out.  J suddenly yells from his room "IT'S SNOWING!!!!"

Everyone ran to the front door and went outside to stand on our porch.  All 5 of us screamed with excitement - I'm sure waking up our entire neighborhood - as we watched huge snowflakes float to the ground.  The kids, in their jammies, ran back inside and grabbed their coats.  Seth and I just stood in awe.  It was snowing.  The flakes were so big and beautiful.  And it was sticking!!!  After we decided that our feet were too cold to stand out there any longer, (we were both in bare feet!  lol) we came back in.  But the kids stayed outside and played in the snow, in their jammies, at 11:00 at night.  :)

And how could I not let them?  It was the first snow of the season.  It was absolutely gorgeous.  It was actually sticking to the ground.  And it was perfect snow for making snowballs.



I let the kids have their fun but then it was time for them to go to bed.  But we'd all go to bed happy.  It snowed in Kansas in November and it was sticking to the ground.  Now, it didn't last long.  Shortly after the kids came inside it quit snowing and turned back to rain which then melted all the snow that had accumulated.  But nothing could bring down my mood at that point.  I'll take all the snow I can get.  I may get a few glares from my friends who know I've been praying for it but I don't care.  If I have to suffer through the allergies of spring and the heat and bugs of summer, I certainly deserve my snowy winter.

I always thank God for the snow.  I no longer take it for granted and on somedays, I think He's letting it snow just for me.  :)

Earthquake?

I live in the midwest.  And I pretty much always have, aside from one summer of living in New York.  I grew up in Iowa and now I live in Kansas.  That basically sums up my state residencies.  We get tornadoes.  I like tornadoes.  They're exciting and adventurous and most of the time, you can prepare to keep yourself safe.  I love stormy weather with big booming thunders and lightening that flashes and jolts all the way down to the ground.  I love the power behind it, knowing that God is the one providing this amazing show.  As a kid, I considered becoming a storm chaser.  However, I wasn't great at weather facts in school and decided I wouldn't be able to do it.  Still, as an adult, storms just fascinate me.

I found that not everyone shared my enthusiasm for tornadoes, especially at the Bible college I attended.  Because there were people there who had never experienced a tornado or even a good Iowa thunderstorm.  Thunderstorms frigthened some of them and tornadoes terrified them.  They preferred the earthquakes.  I had never experienced an earthquake, and as adventurous as I am, I had no desire to be in one.  Earthquakes are what terrified this Iowa girl.  There was no warning whatsoever.  All of a sudden, the earth begins to shake and there's nothing I can do about it.  It didn't sound exciting to me at all.

So, still being in the midwest, I assumed I was safe from earthquakes.  However, I began to wonder when earthquakes were happening in other unusual parts of the country how safe I really was.  Well Saturday night, I found out.  I'm no longer in an earthquake-free zone.

My husband and I went to Topeka for a marriage conference.  Some friends from church watched the 3 kiddos while we were gone from Friday afternoon until Sunday morning when we went to church.  Seth and I came home late Saturday night, the kids staying another night at our friends' house.  We stopped to get some ice cream and then came home to an empty and quiet house.  Seth decided he wanted a bath so that's what he did.  I sat on the toilet to talk with him like I often do when he takes a bath.

Suddenly, the toilet started to shake beneath me.  I'm extremely grateful I wasn't on it to use it!  Things in the living room were rattling.  At first I thought someone was running through the house, but then realized no one else was there.  Then I wondered if a big truck at driven by.  But it was lasting quite a bit longer than a truck.  As everything continued to shake, I grabbed a hold of the doorknob on the bathroom door and the side of the sink.  I looked at Seth, very wide-eyed, I'm sure, as all I could think was, "Please don't tell me this is what I think it is!"  Finally, the shaking stopped.

Seth was in a very big earthquake as a kid so I considered him an expert.  I looked at him and asked, "Was that an earthquake?"  Apparently, the earthquake wasn't quite over.  Seth sat silently in the tub and listened.  I didn't understand what he was doing.  I was still holding on to the doorknob and the sink as I waited for his answer.  After a bit, I thought maybe he didn't hear me.  So I asked again.  "Ssshhh" he responded.  Then he finally decided that it must have been as he had heard the final rumbles stop.

The earth may have stopped shaking, but certainly I hadn't.  It was nearly 11:00pm.  We just had an earthquake.  And my kids weren't here!!!!  My kids just experienced their first earthquake without their mother to comfort their fears.  Were they scared?  Did they even feel it?  Were they even awake?  Those are questions that I would not get the answers to until the next morning at church.  But I couldn't stop thinking about them, or what I had just gone through.

Meanwhile, Seth started looking up information on the earthquake that hit Idaho when he was a kid.  He told me the story, for the umpteenth time, and looked up pictures and reading articles that he thought I would find interesting.  However, in my state of fear at the time, I had no desire to hear what earthquakes are capable of.  Seth had to poke fun at me a bit, because I was quite a bit more freaked out than even I thought I would have been after my first quake.

We did go to bed eventually, and I surprisingly slept very well.  But Sunday morning, I just wanted to hold my kids and couldn't wait to see them.  At church, we heard several stories about different people's experiences as this was the first earthquake most people had ever felt.  Finally, I could hear how my kids handled it.  K and A were asleep in the bed and didn't feel a thing.  J was on the floor next to their bed and thought the girls were shaking the bed so much that they shook the room.  He did admit to me that he was kinda scared.  Only one other person in the house felt it.  So, it was in general, a normal night for them.

Now that I have actually felt an earthquake, my opnions have only been cemented in my thinking.  Tornadoes - good.  Earthquakes - bad.  I don't like being unprepared and earthquakes hit suddenly, without warning, no way of preparing.  I'm minding my own business, and then all of a sudden, I'm shaking with no control.  Nope, don't like it.  I guess I missed an aftershock last night, but that's fine with me.  There's no need to be shaking up my house without warning.  Just give me the thunderstorms, snow storms, and tornadoes and leave the earthquakes in California, please.

Trick-or-Treat!!!

As I stated in a previous blog, I love Halloween.  I love dressing up.  I love getting the kids all dressed up.  And, of course, the kids love getting the candy!  First, we had to figure out what we wanted to be.  J, A, and I already knew.  But K was having a hard time deciding.  Partially because I refuse to buy any main part of a costume.  We must be able to create most of the costume from things we already have at home.  I tried putting together a skirt and fairy wings to make a mermaid tail, but it didn't look that great.  After going through several different ideas, K finally settled on something I could work with.

Then we went shopping for accessories.  We needed to get those few items to complete our costumes.  I still spent more money than I wanted to spend.  Mostly for K's costume.  She can be such a diva.  lol  "I want that!  I need that!!  I should have that!!"  Oi.

With all the busyness, we weren't sure if carving pumpkins was going to be possible.  We certainly didn't make it to a pumpkin patch as I was hoping to do.  Well, Friday, we finally went to Walmart and picked out 3 pumpkins for carving.  We came home, ate supper, and waited for J to come home from cleaning the church.  He really enjoys going with a family from church and helping them clean it every week.  He does a good job.

Finally, J came home.  We cleaned up supper and started to figure out what kind of things the kids wanted to carve.  A figured hers out pretty quickly.  J took a bit but finally decided on a skull.  K had several different ideas but could not settle on the one she wanted.  (Notice the pattern here.)  She had a few drawn out on paper.  She tried at least 2 different ideas on the pumpkin with the small dotting tool.  I drew a couple out for her.  I looked online and printed one idea but we decided it would be too difficult.  She sat and cried for a bit simply because she could not make a decision.  We did our best to help her but making a decision for someone else isn't that easy.  Finally, she found a fun face in the book that came with the carving tools.

Now it was time to gut them.  I have always loved this part.  Here's my tomboy coming out.  :)  I love the gunk, the slime, the goo.  I had no problems helping the kids with their pumpkins in this area.

Obviously, K didn't share my enjoyment of the mush.

J and A didn't mind so much.

Once the pumpkins were gutted properly, it was time to carve.

J carved most of his by himself.

A was finished with hers pretty quickly since Daddy helped her out.

K carved hers once she decided what she was doing.

It was after midnight when we finally finished, but it was fun and well worth it.  Back left is K's, back right is A's and J's is in front.  They all did a great job!

Well, what comes after carving pumpkins?  Waiting.  The weekend seemed to drag as Monday could not come soon enough!  And what a horrible thing to have a weekend drag, right? ;)  K especially had a hard time waiting.  She wanted to put on her costume so badly!  Ok, I couldn't wait to get all of our costumes put together to see how they looked either.

Finally, Halloween arrived, but we still had to wait until mid-afternoon before putting on our costumes.  We had chores and school in the morning.  Then lunch and quiet hour.  After our snack, I let the kids start getting ready.  Myself included.  We spent the afternoon getting our clothes just right, finding the perfect socks, doing hair and makeup, adding jewelry, etc.  I also had to get supper ready, fill the candy bowl with candy for other trick-or-treaters, and clean up the living room.  We were all finished and ready to go by 4:30.  Kids would be coming by any minute.

Is she not the cutest Strawberry Shortcake?

J is really into the XBox 360 and one of his favorite games is Halo (all the different Halo games).  So here he is as a Spartan from the game.

And Cleopatra.  A queen.  Surprising?  Not at all.  :)

I'm a rock star.  I can't sing like one, although I try.

So we're all dressed but still waiting.  Seth had the van so we couldn't go anywhere.  I wasn't sure when trick-or-treating actually started.  Plus I had supper cooking in the crockpot.  I had thought about going to the mall where they had stores handing out candy but I wasn't sure if I wanted to deal with crowds of people.  Seth came home, trick-or-treaters came to the door, and supper was ready to eat.  Seth went downstairs and put on a bunch of hunting and airsoft gear, ready to hand out candy.  The kids and I quickly ate supper and headed out.

Getting ready to head out the door for some trick-or-treating!!

Normally, there's only about 3 houses on our block that are handing out candy.  This year, there were a couple more and we even crossed a couple of streets and found MORE houses ready for us.  Since we don't live in the best of neighborhoods, I don't usually go passed a certain point.  However, I found some very nice people living over there.  The kids' candy buckets were about half full by the time we had come back around to our own house.  I looked at the time.  There was an hour left to go to the mall, but I decided it wasn't going to be worth it.  Instead, we hopped in the van and headed up to where my sister lives.

When we arrived, my sister and her family were still out trick-or-treating their neighborhood, and it was obvious to see why.  Most of the houses in her neighborhood were handing out candy.  We decided to hit a few while we waited.  After a few more houses, we headed back to my sister's house and found her and the family across the street on their last house for the night.  My sister and her husband did not dress up.  But with them they had Optimus Prime and Belle, my nephew and niece.

After a little chat, it was time to head home and get the kids to bed.  After all, we still had to get up the next day for shool and chores because the day after Halloween is just a regular day.  We came home and we trick-or-treated at the door for Daddy and they got their last load of candy.  Seth said there were a few more kids that stopped by after we left.  That's good.  I wouldn't want the temptation of that huge candy bowl sitting in my house.  We took one last picture before heading inside.

It was a fun evening.  But I walked in those high heel boots all over my neighborhood and then around my sister's neighborhood and I could not wait to take those things off and give my feet some relief.  After the kids enjoyed a few pieces of candy, I sent J and K to bed and A to the bath to wash out the red hair color.

Here is the bath water when she was finished.  And there's still a little bit of reddish tint in her hair.

Halloween is now over.  Costumes are put away.  Most of the makeup and hair coloring is washed off.  Candy is sitting in bowls, tempting me.  And November is here.  School has resumed, and regularity has returned for a short time.  Soon we'll be Christmas shopping and holiday planning and celebrating the birth of our Savior.  Time never slows down so cherish every moment.